Category: Child Support and Alimony

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Collecting Child Support When Your Ex Works for Cash

Collecting Child Support When Your Ex Works for Cash

Strategies for Capturing Shadow Income in Child Support Disputes Your case is currently failing. You walked into my office thinking that a tax return is a holy document, but in the world of high-conflict litigation, a tax return is often just a piece of creative fiction. I watched a client lose their entire claim in…
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The Risks of Waiting Too Long to File for Spousal Support

The Risks of Waiting Too Long to File for Spousal Support

The smell of burnt black coffee is the scent of a failed legal strategy. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence and the passage of time. They believed that waiting for a more amicable moment to request financial…
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The Hidden Clause That Could Cost You Thousands in Alimony

The Hidden Clause That Could Cost You Thousands in Alimony

Sit down and drink your coffee. It is cold. This room smells like old paper and broken promises. I have spent twenty five years watching people walk into my office thinking they have won, only to realize they signed their own financial death warrant months prior. Divorce is not a journey of self discovery. It…
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Why You Need a Specific Plan for Future College Expenses

Why You Need a Specific Plan for Future College Expenses

The High Price of Ignorance Regarding College Costs in Divorce Settlements The air in a high-stakes deposition room smells like ozone and mint, a sterile scent that masks the scent of a dying financial future. When you decide to get a divorce, you are not just splitting assets; you are allocating future burdens. Most people…
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How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void, offering explanations that the opposing counsel had not even asked for. In the…
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The Reality of Alimony: How Long Will You Really Have to Pay?

The Reality of Alimony: How Long Will You Really Have to Pay?

The Financial Bloodletting of Spousal Support I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the air. They started talking about their lifestyle expenses. They mentioned a luxury vacation they took after the separation.…
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Why Shared Custody Doesn't Always Mean Zero Child Support

Why Shared Custody Doesn’t Always Mean Zero Child Support

The mathematical illusion of fifty-fifty parenting Shared custody does not negate child support obligations because courts prioritize the standard of living for the child across both households. When you decide to get a divorce, you must realize that the law seeks to equalize the child’s experience. If one parent earns significantly more than the other,…
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Why You Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Fight

Why You Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Fight

The phantom income trap Vocational experts evaluate a spouse’s earning capacity in divorce proceedings to determine fair alimony. These professionals analyze work history, educational background, and local labor markets to identify if a party is voluntarily underemployed. Their testimony provides a divorce lawyer with the evidence needed to impute income for spousal support calculations. I…
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The Hidden Problem With Verbal Child Support Agreements

The Hidden Problem With Verbal Child Support Agreements

The office smells like strong black coffee and the lingering bitterness of yesterday’s failed mediation. You sit across from me, and I will tell you the truth before I even say hello. Your case is failing. It is failing because you trusted a person who is now your legal adversary. I recently spent 14 hours…
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How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Underemployed for Alimony

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Underemployed for Alimony

The strategy of imputed income in divorce Imputed income is the judicial assignment of earnings to a party based on their earning capacity rather than actual reported income. Courts use this when a spouse intentionally earns less to avoid alimony obligations. It requires proving both the physical ability to work and the available opportunity for…
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