Category: Child Support and Alimony

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Why You Might Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Case

Why You Might Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Case

Why You Might Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Case I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the air. When the opposing counsel asked about their daily routine, they bragged about…
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How to File for an Emergency Temporary Support Order

How to File for an Emergency Temporary Support Order

The air in my office usually smells like over-extracted espresso and the cold sweat of people who realized too late that their marriage was a bad investment. You are here because the bank account is empty and the mortgage is three days late. You want an emergency order. Sit down and listen because your case…
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How to Prove a Change in Circumstances for Support Modification

How to Prove a Change in Circumstances for Support Modification

The threshold of a material change The substantial change in circumstances standard requires a divorce lawyer to present evidence of a permanent, involuntary, and material shift in financial or personal status. This often involves child support modification requests based on income reduction, medical disability, or custody schedule changes within the family court system. I watched…
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How to Negotiate Who Pays for Private School Tuition

How to Negotiate Who Pays for Private School Tuition

How to Negotiate Who Pays for Private School Tuition I smell like strong black coffee and the harsh reality of a courtroom. If you are here for a soft touch, find a therapist. If you want to keep your child in their current school without going bankrupt, stay in the room. I watched a client…
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How Child Support is Calculated if You Are Self-Employed

How Child Support is Calculated if You Are Self-Employed

The deposition that ended before it started I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, glass-walled conference room that smelled like stale coffee and ozone. My client, a successful freelance consultant, decided to…
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Why Judges View Voluntary Unemployment as a Red Flag for Alimony

Why Judges View Voluntary Unemployment as a Red Flag for Alimony

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, glass walled conference room that smelled like stale coffee and laser toner. My client, a former software executive, was claiming that he could no longer…
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How to Enforce Alimony Payments When Your Ex Stops Paying

How to Enforce Alimony Payments When Your Ex Stops Paying

The brutal truth about your unpaid support I smell like strong black coffee and the hard reality of a Friday afternoon at the courthouse. Before you say hello, let me tell you why your case is likely failing. You are waiting for your former spouse to feel guilty. Guilt is not a legal strategy. I…
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When to Request an Audit of Child Support Payments

When to Request an Audit of Child Support Payments

The smell of strong black coffee is the only thing that keeps the senses sharp when you are staring at three years of redacted bank statements at three in the morning. I am a trial attorney, not a hand-holder. I have spent twenty five years watching people lie under oath, and nowhere do they lie…
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How to Request More Support During the Trial Phase

How to Request More Support During the Trial Phase

I smell like strong black coffee and the cold reality of a courtroom that does not care about your feelings. You came to this office because you are losing. Your divorce is not a sad story; it is a failing business liquidation. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes…
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What Judges Really Think About Late Support Payments

What Judges Really Think About Late Support Payments

The smell of burnt coffee fills the room while I review the ledger. I see the same story every week. A client walks into the courtroom thinking their excuse for a late payment matters. It does not. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they…
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