Category: Child Support and Alimony

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How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Reducing Their Income I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void, offering explanations that the opposing counsel had not even asked for. In the…
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The Reality of Alimony: How Long Will You Really Have to Pay?

The Reality of Alimony: How Long Will You Really Have to Pay?

The Financial Bloodletting of Spousal Support I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the air. They started talking about their lifestyle expenses. They mentioned a luxury vacation they took after the separation.…
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Why Shared Custody Doesn't Always Mean Zero Child Support

Why Shared Custody Doesn’t Always Mean Zero Child Support

The mathematical illusion of fifty-fifty parenting Shared custody does not negate child support obligations because courts prioritize the standard of living for the child across both households. When you decide to get a divorce, you must realize that the law seeks to equalize the child’s experience. If one parent earns significantly more than the other,…
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Why You Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Fight

Why You Need a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Fight

The phantom income trap Vocational experts evaluate a spouse’s earning capacity in divorce proceedings to determine fair alimony. These professionals analyze work history, educational background, and local labor markets to identify if a party is voluntarily underemployed. Their testimony provides a divorce lawyer with the evidence needed to impute income for spousal support calculations. I…
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The Hidden Problem With Verbal Child Support Agreements

The Hidden Problem With Verbal Child Support Agreements

The office smells like strong black coffee and the lingering bitterness of yesterday’s failed mediation. You sit across from me, and I will tell you the truth before I even say hello. Your case is failing. It is failing because you trusted a person who is now your legal adversary. I recently spent 14 hours…
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How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Underemployed for Alimony

How to Prove a Spouse is Purposefully Underemployed for Alimony

The strategy of imputed income in divorce Imputed income is the judicial assignment of earnings to a party based on their earning capacity rather than actual reported income. Courts use this when a spouse intentionally earns less to avoid alimony obligations. It requires proving both the physical ability to work and the available opportunity for…
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How to Secure Child Support if Your Ex Works for Cash

How to Secure Child Support if Your Ex Works for Cash

The hidden war for child support in a cash economy I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, wood-paneled conference room that smelled of stale coffee and litigation fatigue. My client was asked…
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How to Handle a Spouse Who Uses Child Support for Themselves

How to Handle a Spouse Who Uses Child Support for Themselves

The deposition disaster that ends support disputes I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were in a cramped conference room that smelled like old paper and stale coffee. My client was furious because her ex-husband was driving…
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The Error of Hiding Your New Job During Support Hearings

The Error of Hiding Your New Job During Support Hearings

The high price of tactical deception Hiding a new job during support hearings constitutes a breach of the duty of candor. Courts rely on accurate financial disclosures to calculate support obligations. Failure to report new income results in retroactive modifications, heavy sanctions, and a total loss of judicial trust. Transparency is the only viable path.…
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The Truth About Alimony and Living With a New Partner

The Truth About Alimony and Living With a New Partner

The Truth About Alimony and Living With a New Partner The office smells like strong black coffee. My desk is buried under three boxes of discovery documents from a case that should have ended six months ago. You think your divorce is over. You think that monthly check is a guarantee. You are wrong. I…
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