Category: Child Support and Alimony

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How to Handle Medical Bills for Your Kids Post-Divorce

How to Handle Medical Bills for Your Kids Post-Divorce

The Pediatric Expense Protocol I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a standard divorce decree, or so the client thought. Buried in the fine print of the medical provisions was a requirement that the custodial parent provide…
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How to Adjust Child Support After a Major Pay Cut or Layoff

How to Adjust Child Support After a Major Pay Cut or Layoff

Navigating the Financial Abyss of Post Layoff Support Orders The office smells like stale black coffee and the cold residue of a long night spent reviewing tax returns. You sit across from me, hands shaking, telling me you just lost your job. You think the court will understand. You think the payments will just stop…
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How to Prove Your Spouse Is Underemployed to Avoid Alimony

How to Prove Your Spouse Is Underemployed to Avoid Alimony

You are likely losing your divorce case right now. You think that the truth will set you free, but in a courtroom, the truth is only what you can prove through cold, hard documentation. If your spouse is sitting at home claiming they cannot find work while you bleed money for alimony, you are being…
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The Impact of Recent Alimony Law Changes on Your Tax Return

The Impact of Recent Alimony Law Changes on Your Tax Return

The Impact of Recent Alimony Law Changes on Your Tax Return I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, wood-paneled conference room that smelled of stale coffee and industrial cleaner. My client, a…
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How to Request a Temporary Support Order While You Wait

How to Request a Temporary Support Order While You Wait

The office smells like strong black coffee and old paper. It is the scent of a hundred trials. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the air. They started talking about their…
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How to Modify Your Child Support Order After a Job Loss

How to Modify Your Child Support Order After a Job Loss

I smell the strong black coffee on my desk and look at the file of a man who waited too long to call me. He lost his vice president role six months ago and spent those months burning through his 401k to pay a child support obligation based on a three hundred thousand dollar salary.…
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The Role of a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Case

The Role of a Vocational Expert in Your Alimony Case

The hidden mechanism of vocational experts in alimony litigation I smell like three cups of burnt Colombian roast and the cold exhaustion of a hundred trials. Your divorce is a business transaction. If you treat it like a therapy session, you lose. Most people think alimony is about what you want, but it is actually…
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Why Your Marital Standard of Living Matters for Alimony

Why Your Marital Standard of Living Matters for Alimony

Why Your Marital Standard of Living Matters for Alimony Sit down. Drink your coffee. The judge does not care about your feelings, they care about your tax returns and your credit card statements from the last thirty-six months. In the world of high-stakes divorce litigation, your lifestyle is not a memory, it is a line…
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How Your Infidelity Might Affect Alimony Payments

How Your Infidelity Might Affect Alimony Payments

The high cost of a secret life Infidelity affects alimony payments primarily through the lens of financial dissipation where marital funds were used to support an extramarital relationship. In many jurisdictions, a divorce lawyer will argue that while the emotional betrayal is irrelevant to the bench, the economic impact of that betrayal remains a central…
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The Impact of Remarriage on Your Current Alimony Payments

The Impact of Remarriage on Your Current Alimony Payments

How Remarriage Ends Your Alimony Payments and Spousal Support Duties The office smells like strong black coffee and the acidic scent of old paper because legal reality is rarely pleasant. You think your divorce was final the day the judge signed that stack of papers, but the law has a long memory. I recently spent…
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