Category: Post-Divorce Issues

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How to Deal With an Ex Who Won't Follow the Parenting Plan

How to Deal With an Ex Who Won’t Follow the Parenting Plan

I smell like strong black coffee and I am here to tell you that your case is failing. It is failing because you believe the law is about fairness. It is not. The law is about procedure, evidence, and the cold application of leverage. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first…
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How to Successfully Co-Parent with a High-Conflict Individual

How to Successfully Co-Parent with a High-Conflict Individual

Tactical Survival During High Conflict Custody Disputes I smell like strong black coffee because I spent all night reviewing three years of text messages between two people who claim to love their children but hate each other more. Your case is currently failing. You think you are being reasonable, but in the eyes of a…
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How to Separate Your Identity from Your Marriage Post-Divorce

How to Separate Your Identity from Your Marriage Post-Divorce

Smell the ozone in the air before a storm. That is the scent of a courtroom right before a cross-examination begins. If you are sitting at the petitioner table smelling like desperation and old memories, you have already lost. I have spent twenty-five years watching people walk into my office with their lives in tatters,…
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How to Deal With an Ex Who Harasses You via Co-Parenting Apps

How to Deal With an Ex Who Harasses You via Co-Parenting Apps

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They sat in that mahogany-paneled room, smelled the stale coffee, and started explaining their feelings about their ex-spouse. They thought the OurFamilyWizard logs were a shield that proved their victimhood. Instead,…
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