Category: Post-Divorce Issues

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What Happens to Your Taxes the First Year After You Divorce?

What Happens to Your Taxes the First Year After You Divorce?

The Brutal Financial Reality of Your First Single Tax Return I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a tax indemnity provision buried in a marital settlement agreement that my client had already signed. She thought she was…
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How to Handle Your Ex’s Family During the Legal Process

How to Handle Your Ex’s Family During the Legal Process

I smell the ozone of the office copier and the sharp mint of the gum I chew before every cross-examination. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought their former sister-in-law was still a confidante. They shared…
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How to Deal With an Ex Who Harasses You via Text

How to Deal With an Ex Who Harasses You via Text

The room smells like ozone and mint. I sit across from a client who is shaking because their phone just buzzed for the fortieth time today. It is their ex. I do not look at the phone yet. I look at the client and I use silence as a weapon. I am waiting for them…
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The Risks of Dating Someone New Before the Final Decree

The Risks of Dating Someone New Before the Final Decree

The trap of the rebound romance Dating while you try to get a divorce creates a massive liability where your divorce lawyer must defend against claims of marital asset dissipation and parental unfitness. When you introduce a new partner before the final decree, you provide the opposing divorce attorney with a weapon to leverage alimony…
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Why You Should Change Your Life Insurance Beneficiary Today

Why You Should Change Your Life Insurance Beneficiary Today

I smell like strong black coffee. The bitter, burnt kind that sits in a glass carafe in the back of a courthouse cafeteria. It is the scent of a long morning spent watching good people lose everything because they assumed the law was fair. It isn’t. The law is a set of gears, and if…
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How to Handle an Ex Who Refuses to Sign Final Tax Returns

How to Handle an Ex Who Refuses to Sign Final Tax Returns

The High Cost of Spite in Post-Divorce Financials The office smells like strong black coffee and old paper. It is the scent of a trial attorney who has spent twenty five years watching people burn their own lives down just to see their former spouse inhale the smoke. When an ex-spouse refuses to sign a…
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How to Get Your Name Off the Mortgage After the Split

How to Get Your Name Off the Mortgage After the Split

The bank does not care about your divorce decree Removing a name from a mortgage requires a total release of liability from the lender or a full payoff of the existing debt. A divorce decree only binds the spouses; it does not bind the bank or modify the original promissory note. You must refinance the…
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How to Handle an Ex Who Ignores the Official Parenting Schedule

How to Handle an Ex Who Ignores the Official Parenting Schedule

The office smells like strong black coffee and the hard reality of a case that is currently bleeding out. If you are reading this because your former spouse decided the court ordered parenting plan is merely a polite suggestion, you are already behind. You likely believe that the law is self-executing or that the judge…
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The Risks of Posting Your New Relationship on Instagram

The Risks of Posting Your New Relationship on Instagram

You sit across from me in a room that smells like strong black coffee and old paper. Your case is failing. You do not know it yet. You think your private life is private. You are wrong. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they…
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The Impact of Remarriage on Your Right to the Family Home

The Impact of Remarriage on Your Right to the Family Home

The Brutal Reality of Remarriage and Your Right to the Family Home Everyone wants their day in court until they see the jury selection process. It isn’t about truth; it’s about perception. I have watched clients lose their entire leverage over a marital home because they showed up to a hearing with a new diamond…
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