Category: Family Law and Custody

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How to Prepare for a Custody Evaluation with a Professional

How to Prepare for a Custody Evaluation with a Professional

The Brutal Reality of the Custody Evaluation I watched a client lose their entire claim for primary physical custody in the first ten minutes of a clinical interview because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They walked into the office of a court-appointed psychologist and began a frantic, caffeine-fueled monologue about the failures of…
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How to Keep the Kids Out of the Middle of Your Legal Battle

How to Keep the Kids Out of the Middle of Your Legal Battle

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they were protecting their child by venting about the other parent. Instead, they handed the defense a silver platter of evidence regarding parental alienation. This is the reality when…
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Why Passive-Aggressive Texting Can Hurt Your Custody Case

Why Passive-Aggressive Texting Can Hurt Your Custody Case

The deposition disaster that ended a custody claim I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. It was not about what they said aloud; it was about the hundred messages they had sent at three in the morning the…
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3 Text Message Mistakes That Destroy Your Credibility in Custody Court

3 Text Message Mistakes That Destroy Your Credibility in Custody Court

The air in my office smells like strong black coffee and the metallic scent of old file cabinets. You are sitting across from me because your marriage is dead. You want to get a divorce and secure your children. But I have bad news. I just read your phone. You think you are being honest…
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4 Custody Schedule Tweaks That Reduce Conflict With a Difficult Ex

4 Custody Schedule Tweaks That Reduce Conflict With a Difficult Ex

The tactical reality of high conflict custody management The air in my office usually smells like over-extracted black coffee and the metallic scent of old filing cabinets. I have sat across the table from thousands of parents during a divorce. Most of them think they are fighting for their children. In reality, they are fighting…
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