Category: Divorce Financial Planning

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Why You Need a Qualified Domestic Relations Order for Retirement Accounts

Why You Need a Qualified Domestic Relations Order for Retirement Accounts

The Brutal Truth-Teller: My office smells like strong black coffee and the acidic scent of old paper. I see people walk in here every day thinking they won their divorce because a judge signed a piece of paper. They are wrong. I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable,…
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Why Your Spouse's 401k is Not 'Their' Money in the Eyes of the Court

Why Your Spouse’s 401k is Not ‘Their’ Money in the Eyes of the Court

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. The document was a dense retirement plan summary, buried under layers of corporate jargon and HR fluff. My client thought they were entitled to nothing. They were wrong. The spouse had spent…
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How to Handle a Spouse Who Drains the Joint Savings Account

How to Handle a Spouse Who Drains the Joint Savings Account

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a series of wire transfers that were designed to be invisible, only to find the one offshore account that changed everything. The client sat across from me, hands shaking, holding a bank statement that showed a balance of forty-two dollars. Two weeks prior, that balance was three hundred thousand.…
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Why You Need a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst on Your Team

Why You Need a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst on Your Team

The air in my office usually smells like strong black coffee and the ozone of a laser printer running at full capacity. I have spent twenty five years in the trenches of high stakes litigation, and I can tell you that most people walk into a divorce with a knife when the opposition is bringing…
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Why You Need a Neutral Third Party for Asset Valuations

Why You Need a Neutral Third Party for Asset Valuations

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped conference room that smelled of old paper and bitter coffee. My client, desperate to look cooperative, began explaining why he thought his business was worth…
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The Error of Not Valuation Your Spouse's Future Pension

The Error of Not Valuation Your Spouse’s Future Pension

I sit here with a cup of black coffee that has gone cold because I spent the last three hours explaining to a client why they just lost half a million dollars. It is a familiar, bitter taste. People come into my office every day thinking they understand their assets. They have the house, the…
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Why You Should Lock Your Credit the Day You File

Why You Should Lock Your Credit the Day You File

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a sterile conference room with bad fluorescent lighting and the smell of burnt coffee. My client, a high net worth individual, started rambling about their financial contributions…
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How to Protect Your Family Business from Being Liquidated

How to Protect Your Family Business from Being Liquidated

The first ten minutes of the end I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. He sat across from a divorce lawyer who smelled of cheap paper and desperation. My client, the founder of a thirty million dollar logistics…
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How to Split Joint Debt Without Ruining Your Individual Credit

How to Split Joint Debt Without Ruining Your Individual Credit

The decree cannot save your credit score Family court orders only affect the parties involved in the divorce, not your creditors. Banks and financial institutions are not signatories to your divorce settlement or final judgment. If a judge orders your spouse to pay a joint debt and they fail to perform, the creditor will still…
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How to Protect Your Pension During the Property Division Stage

How to Protect Your Pension During the Property Division Stage

The air in the deposition room always carries the faint scent of ozone from the overworked copier and the sharp sting of wintergreen mints. My client sat across from a shark who had spent twenty years eating retirees for breakfast. Ten minutes. That is all it took for a three million dollar retirement claim to…
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